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It’s a fact that many western men want, are looking for and are attracted to Filipina women - ‘Pinays.’ Due to the Filipinas’ unique type of femininity and desirability, I’ve known quite a few men who’ve been seriously looking for Filipina girlfriend - or a Filipina bride to love and marry! It’s also well known that Westerner-Filipina marriages are more successful than Westerner-Westerner marriages – with a lower divorce rate.
Just like my views on Russian women, I believe that Filipino women have just as many admirable qualities, as well as wonderful, feminine and altruistic attributes going for them. Moreover, this is exactly what many Western men are looking for. Filipinas are very ideal girlfriend and wife material too - and any sane masculine men would virtually be lapping up a Filipina’s caring and generous ways!
In addition, I’ve had quite a few happy-go-lucky and charming Filipina friends over the years and can vouch for their wonderful and vibrant personalities, as well as their quite unique female characteristics. I’ve also not met a Filipina yet, that didn’t make me feel most welcome in her home. They’re also generally very warm, friendly and hospitable ladies.
Not only that, but they truly can be a JOY to be around, and the littlest of things can really ‘set them off’ into a rather hysterical fit of giggles - and the silliest and most unexpected things imaginable will really amuse them (just like myself at times!) And, in a group of women that can be really quite refreshing to witness.
And, as an expert on femininity, I can also vouch that ‘Pinays’ are one of the most FEMININE groups of ladies alive! Their feminine natures surpass many non-traditional Western women in the sense that they can be quite reverent towards their men and are willing and able to let a man be a MAN. I can certainly see why many Western men are so attracted and charmed by the Filipinas!
I’d also like to add that I’m well aware of many Western peoples rather cynical or negative views of Filipina (and also Russian women,) and how they think that most Filipina women who marry Western men are automatically ‘gold diggers’ or just looking for a ticket out of poverty. I think such generalizations are not only ignorant, but rather judgmental and cruel. For my personal views on this opinion, please read my post;
http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/2008/10/why-men-are-so-attracted-to-foreign.html
Now let’s look at the ideal qualities and attributes of Filipina girls and women – Pinays – and determine their secrets. And, what Western men find so attractive, fascinating and desirable about them;
1. Filipina Beauty and SensualityWell, for a start, many Filipinas are petite, delicate looking and rather ‘doll-like.’ This naturally brings out a real
contrast between themselves and the men. Moreover, many Filipina girls and women have gorgeous manes of hair and appear quite sensual and womanly. They’re often dainty in mannerisms and age very well. They also take pride in the way they look, as well as in the way they dress.
Also, Filipinas are renowned world-wide by men for their unique type of feminine exotic beauty (being a rather exotic mixture of Asian, Spanish and Malaysian heredity.) Most Filipina girls and women also favor keeping their hair LONG (which men prefer) - and looking like a woman
should!2. Filipinas’ FemininityPinay girls and women are generally known to be
traditionally feminine and EASY to be with; patient, modest and humble. Most are softly spoken and submissive too. In addition, many Pinay girls and women are tranquil, gentle, compassionate, respectful, supportive and understanding.
On the whole, Filipinas are also far less aggressive, as well as less demanding than those ‘modern feminist’ kinds of women. They usually have a quite calm and relaxed temperament as well. Luckily for them, the feminist ‘anti-male’ agenda hasn’t ruined their God-given femininity or womanhood - and let’s hope it never does! As we know, a Feminine woman is exactly the
best and most IDEAL kind of girlfriend or wife that a man could have!
3. Filipina Cheerfulness and Optimism I can also tell you that Filipina girls and women are amongst the most happy, optimistic and cheerful ladies on earth! You’ll find that they’re quite entertaining too and usually have a terrific sense of humor. In addition, they love to joke, chatter amiably and have a lot of fun. And, you rarely ever see an unhappy or
depressed Filipina woman!
Even a Filipina friend told me that in the Philippines, the land of Tagalog, smiles and fiestas, you RARELY ever witness depression. Because of their contented natures and ideal disposition, it’s really no wonder then that many men idealize them as a
pleasure to be with ;-)
4. Filipina Women’s Traditional Ways, Modesty and Family ValuesBesides embracing their femininity, Filipina women have those lovely, old fashioned and traditional family values that sadly are not anywhere near as common in Western society. I tell you doves, many Western men are quite disheartened and disillusioned by the
lack of these values in Western women.
As for Filipinas, they're mostly traditional, marry early and are sexually modest before marriage. And, once married, family comes
ahead of career. Even so, many Filipinas still manage to find their own little place under the sun!
Ideologically, Pinays aren’t just loyal and accommodating, but quite
conservative. In fact, family and home means everything to them! They often make the most wonderful mothers too – and literally devote themselves to their children’s (and husband’s) well-being and happiness.
A family-oriented Filipina woman would never, ever abandon her children, and would
never dream of putting her parent/s into a nursing home.
5. The Filipina’s Home LifeFilipinas are organized, flexible and willing to sacrifice. As a homemaker, they’re more domesticated than most other women too. Just like traditionally feminine Western women, they may want to do almost everything and is quite the ‘domestic queen.’ Not only that, but they cook delicious meals each day and take a lot of
pride and care in their homes.
6. Filipinas on Love and MarriageUnlike the overly-independent and liberal type of woman, a Pinay believes in and wants a loving and
traditional marriage! She wants a knight in shining armor who’ll make her feel protected and secure. Filipina girls and women are, in some men's minds, the most sweet, affectionate, passionate and loving women in the world. They definitely know how to make a man feel
respected, needed and admired - like a REAL man!
Pinays are also renowned to make a real effort in pleasing and catering to their husbands. As women of substance, marriage is not only considered to sacred to the usual Filipina wife, but a
permanent, life-long commitment. In fact, divorce is rarely considered.
7. Filipina’s Faith and Spiritual LifeMost Filipinas are spiritually inclined and have a strong faith in God. Generally, they also have a good sense of
morality and values. In fact, most Filipinas would avoid like the plague doing anything that could bring shame upon them or their family!
As a very ‘collective’ type of woman, a Filipina almost reverently takes care of her loved ones and is rarely materialistic like so many in the West. Gaining material possessions just isn’t considered to be a major priority in life.
8. Filipina Strength and DeterminationPinays are quite determined little creatures, as well as very resourceful and hard working! Like the ‘Southern Belle,’ even though these women are usually soft and gentle on the surface, they often have a
very strong interior. Their tenacity often astounds me and many seem to have a secret reserve of energy stashed away for when they really need it.
And, even though after marriage, most Filipina women
choose to stay home to take care of the husband and family, many are still willing to help support the family financially (if absolutely necessary.)
9. The Filipina’s Intelligence and the Importance of EducationPinays are also intelligent and generally well-educated women – a college education being
vitally important in the modern Philippine culture.
10. The Filipina Woman Dating When dating, a Filipina girl or woman takes it
slow and LOVES to play hard to get – which they call ‘pakipot!’ This is because playing hard to get is understood to be a very useful tactic for a Filipina, as well as the most sensible road to take!
Filipinas wisely look for the
evidence of a man’s feelings, as well as proof of sincerity, and know that by that playing hard to get, they get to really test out a man’s level of interest
;-)
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