The wives most loved, appreciated and admired by their husbands have a distinct feminine nature which is truly worthy of a good man's love, appreciation and admiration. They also have such a sincere, engaging and pleasing personality that they can win over a man’s heart without really trying! Their behavior is rational, intelligent and balanced. Their interactions come from a place of genuine interest, concern and a heartfelt love and devotion. They're the REAL DEAL.A woman will prove to her husband - in the long run - that she's truly as soft as a dove and will display many graces and attractions. Although she knows that she's certainly not perfect and she has probably made more than a few mistakes, she'll still be her husband's sweetheart and her children's maternal angel. Forever striving to become the most worthy and lovable female character that she can possibly be!
Now, let’s take a look at some of five characteristics of the kind of woman I’m referring to;
1. There’s a spirituality – a powerful and active belief in God (or a higher power) and a desire for 'light and truth.' This will cause a woman to live her life in a manner that's predominantly clear, compassionate, unselfish and altruistic. There's a genuine desire to love and serve others, to treat them in the way that she herself would like to be treated. She'll also operate from the premise; ‘we reap what we sow’ and fully believes in the law of 'cause and affect' - or what some refer to as ‘karma.’ This is what makes a woman holy.
2. There’s an abiding conscience - as well as openness, compassion and empathy within. Naturally there'd be some pain and regret felt over any former mistreatment of others - or from any moral failings. She's not a person who bears false witness, who lies, denies or buries her head in the sand. She's mature, authentic, honest and takes full responsibility for herself. Instead of living with lies, she'd rather make up to others for any mistreatment or failings!
3. There’s a placid serenity of soul - an obvious self-control over her actions and reactions. There’s patience, humbleness and gentleness displayed in her nature (without being anyone’s doormat.) There’s a gentleness of manner and speech and she speaks to her husband and children with a calm and moderate voice. There’s slowness to anger or of becoming irritated. Just being around her will be pleasant and soothing for others and she'll love to create the kind of environment that offers a total refuge from the stresses of life.
4. There’s an almost ‘angelic’ element in her character - a genuine love, compassion, caring and concern. There's a natural affection and unconditional love for, as well as acceptance of her husband and children - ALL of her children! There's also an aversion towards any cruelty, injustice or judging of others. There's a ready forgiveness in her nature. There’s also a kindness in her eyes and the love may be visible on her face. There's not a trace of bitterness, hardness or of a highly strung/'anti-seductive' personality to be seen!
5. There's fun, enthusiasm, and zest for harmonious social habits - a desire for regular interaction and togetherness. This woman and her husband will also have a regular social set and their children will often be included! There's barbecues, picnics, Sunday dinners, parties and holidays with family and friends. There's shared hobbies, goals and mutual interests. Healthy people have a variety of healthy hobbies, goals and interests and know how to experience the simple ecstasies in life - they also share them with others! Unhealthy people do none of that.
When a woman has this admirable and worthy kind of character - it’s always SINCERE. Everything she does; whether it’s thinking, doing or speaking, she aims to do with truth, beauty, harmony and integrity. A husband who's been blessed with such a wife will know that his wife was worth giving up his masculine freedom for - he made the right choice!
There's no regrets concerning this woman he chose to commit his life to. She truly loves him, appreciates him, supports him, understands him and refreshes him. What could be more reassuring and satisfying to a husband? She's also adored by all of her children as she not only helps make their father's life rewarding and fulfilling, but theirs too. She never forgets a child! For most mothers, their hearts will manage to open to the point that they'll feel understanding and compassion for an estranged child.
Though, with the woman of an unworthy and artificial character, there’s a lack of natural affection as well as credibility - even some nasty surprises in store for her husband and children. This is the kind of woman that no man ever wants to find himself stuck with. I actually pity those poor men who have made an error in judgment and where divorce is not an option. I'll talk about this kind of woman in the next post.
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4 comments:
This certainly was enlightening:) These are not always easy to achieve but I can certainly understand how they're all positive ways of enhancing a loving family relationship- which is great for both husband and children- and satisfying to both wife and mom. Thanks:)
Femininity is constructed around adaptation to male power. Its central feature is attractiveness to men, which includes physical appearance, ego-massaging, suppression of "power" emotions such as anger, nurturance of children, exclusive heterosexuality, sexual availability without sexual assertiveness, and sociability ("Men like women who smile.") One could say that masculinity and femininity are societal euphemisms for male dominance and female subordination. However, hegemonic masculinity and subordinate femininity are not conspiracies. Rather, they are the result of widely accepted ways of thinking that define male dominance as fair, reasonable, and in the best interests of society. Thank you for affirming male dominance and female subordination in your blog.
Hmm.... On the one hand, yes enlightening - I like the idea of creating a happy partnership, & having an 'attractive energy'. On the other hand... yes, potentially concerning. Suppression of "'power' emotions such as anger" frequently leads to depression, or the emotion starts to leak out in passive aggressive ways...
Again, I do like the idea of cultivating my feminine energy & beauty. I understand there's a 'lead & a follow' in most partner dances. But at the same time there is no way I would give up my power or authenticity as a sovereign woman (ie: person!)
I love myself, I take care of myself (as well as others), & demand utmost r-e-s-p-e-c-t from others. There are lines that I draw, & I assuage egos & put up with a certain level of bs - until you cross them!
I do smile a lot though... that's cause I'm happy & I have the answers ;)
graciously & charmingly,
SWF - 30
Thanks for the comments y'all! You're right Lucy, since no one's perfect this certainly isn't always easy for one to achieve.
Perhaps it's something we can sincerely strive for - and most probably will be an ongoing learning curve ;-)
As for SWF's comment and the issue of anger, it's true that repressing anger can (and does)lead to depression. It's definitely unhealthy, as well as harmful to suppress our anger!
Don't forget, when I was speaking about anger, I wasn't referring to the majority of women here, I was referring to the destructive and 'unbalanced' types of women who often have that over the top type of anger. And, the women who're involved in spousal abuse and even abuse towards their own children.
As 'anonymous' stated so eloquently, femininity is constructed around adaptation to male power. I agree wholeheartedly with that, as well as it being in the best interests of our society.
Even so, this blog is not at all about a woman giving up her feminine power or authenticity, which would be potentially concerning for sure. Quite the contrary in fact!
It's actually the opposite if you delve into the deeper aspects of femininity.
M xx
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