and Geisha Arts -
http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/2008/08/make-him-fall-in-love-feminine-art-of.html
The art of being feminine is a sublime female art; that EVERY woman (in an ideal world,) would eagerly set out to master. Becoming a feminine woman is definitely a most fruitful and fulfilling experience as the rewards are many. Yet, in this imperfect world, femininity is so misunderstood by the misinformed women, that it’s often criticized as being ‘old fashioned’ (therefore obsolete,) even as damaging to women. This is simply not the truth and the concept of men and women treating each other as if they’re supposed to be the same is absurd!
A man and women are supposed to be opposites. The two genders are supposed to bear such an intense relation to each other, that one is essential for the actions of the other. And, always remember dear ones, a man doesn’t want another man, he wants a WOMAN! There’s also nothing more unappealing to a man than a woman with a mannish appearance and manner. Though if the radical feminists had their way, men and women would merge completely and there’d be no telling us apart!
A woman’s femininity is actually very empowering for her and can lead a man further than he thinks possible. This is because a feminine woman has a genius ability of discovering what electrifies and empowers a man. The geisha know this! A masculine man will be almost transfixed, as well as fascinated by a truly feminine woman who he senses can please him in virtually a thousand winning ways. And, it makes her unforgettable. Perhaps this also comes down to the fact that feminine women are rare!
A man is especially influenced by a woman who understands that he needs to feel strong – stronger than a woman that is. He’s also like putty in the hands of a woman who knows how to make her man feel important - that he’s ‘a man among men.’ Cleopatra knew this! Even Goethe told us; “If you treat a man as he is, he will stay as he is, but if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be, and could be, he will become that bigger and better man.’’
A man NEEDS to feel needed by a woman – such as needing him for protection or counting on him to save her from harm’s way. A man also loves a woman who can make him feel manly - don’t ever take this need away from him! Also, a man can’t ever offer his chivalrous care and protection to you if he feels it’s not needed. He also prefers (and secretly loves it) when a woman depends on him for assistance - such as lifting something heavy for her or changing her car’s flat tire.
The feminine woman graciously let’s her man take the lead and is not embarrassed about depending on him for certain things. She willingly asserts the ‘power’ over to him. She can do this for the simple fact she knows that it actually takes a very strong person with a solid sense of self to willingly yield to another’s leadership. But in case you’re still thinking that this means that a feminine woman must be weak or helpless, think again!
A feminine woman is not a passive passenger in life, but right in the middle of it! She has the courage to live naturally (as her Creator intended) and understands that the more she develops her feminine nature, the easier she wins her man’s love and devotion. So, she doesn’t scoff at the idea of a man’s care and protection. And, she’s actually happy (and quite relieved) to let him carry the load – even to rescue her from trouble. But in case you’re still thinking that this means that a feminine woman is supposed to be weak or helpless, think again!
On the contrary, a feminine woman often is, and should be an emotionally strong and empowered person with an inner fortitude to match. Her man could definitely depend on her if the circumstances called for it (Helen Andelin, the author of ‘Fascinating Womanhood,’ calls this the ‘the Sweet Promise.’) But her unique manner of communicating, relating, as well as her particular style of behaving is never aggressive or demanding.
Instead, the feminine woman is assertive about her wants and needs in a calm and resolute sort of way. Everything she does is expressed in a feminine manner and when it comes to getting what she wants, she knows how to act in such a clever, powerful and indirect way that her man always responds ideally and positively – and never feeling defensive or resentful towards her!
Instead, his feelings of appreciation, respect and affection for her just grow more and more! Her feminine manner also is highly attractive and brings out the best in him. So take pride in your femininity and fascinating womanhood! And, there’s almost no limit how far you go with your femininity. It’s an amazingly successful way of life and an entire way of being.
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- The Feminine Art of Capturing a Man's Heart and Being Adored Book
- How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Book
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